For the past eight years I have been mired down in the muck of young motherhood. While it hasn't been totally horrible...it's had its moments.
Being a young mom is hard.
I imagine being an old mom is hard too. I don't know yet. I'm not there...yet. When I walk in those shoes, I'll let you know how it is.
For now, I only know mountains of laundry and potty training and sleep deprivation and senseless, needless messes everywhere I look and sticky fingerprints and snotty noses and four year old interrogation and whining and two year old tantrums and Disney movies on repeat and nighttime anxiety and boxes of diapers and Cheerios smashed into car seats and an eight year old who is never full.
There is joy to balance out all that goo and grindstone. But, let's be honest. Sometimes those moments dim in comparison to the daily, monotonous, melancholy, messy routine.
But as mothers, we always have hope. The hope that our never-ending efforts will one day be rewarded with children who are self-sufficient, happy, well-adjusted individuals who contribute as much, if not more, than they take.
We hang on to the hope for Mommy Paydays. That the "check won't be in the mail" forever and that we will start to reap some of the fruit from the seeds we have so diligently been sowing day after day. That we will know we are making some difference little by little.
The last couple of days I've made a few deposits...
Last night as Jeigh got on stage, stood proudly on a chair beside me, and sang her little heart out...
Ka-ching!
Today as I watched both of my older children--voluntarily!--get up in Primary and bear their precious, sweet, little testimonies for the first time ever...
Ka-ching!
When Dee sat down in his chair afterwards and announced to the primary room, "I'm so happy! I love church now!" and I knew that that happy feeling he was feeling was the Spirit...
Ka-ching!
As I watch Elle growing and changing every single day, learning how to write letters, drawing and coloring for hours, being proactive about her gluten free diet, talking about how Jesus loves her...
Ka-ching!
While I struggle with Cee keeping her diaper on, I have hope that potty training is right around the corner and that very soon we will be done with diapers forever...
Ka-ching!
Every time I walk down the hall at bedtime to find these placed on the floor, waiting for me...
Ka-ching!
It dawned on me today, that young motherhood really won't last forever, even when it seems like it will. I can't wait for the future, the freedom, and all the Mommy Paydays that are there. But I'm enjoying my little paychecks now too. I really do love being a mom. Best. job. ever.
Super perfect. While you're "in the trenches" it's so hard to see the blessings that your children really are. Except for those few, sparkling moments. And it even helps to hear when someone else finds those awesome little moments.
ReplyDeleteI love it! Thanks for reminding us to focus on the good times. Having all these little ones is definitely tough, but it's definitely awesome too!
ReplyDeleteBeing a young mother really can be hard. And by young, I mean mother to young kids. :) What sweet paydays you are getting. Kids really do have a way of making it all worth it, don't they?
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